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Wednesday, April 02, 2008

retarded reasons to starve yourself

 I was snooping around Xanga, and came across what could very well be one of the dumbest "Reasons not to eat" lists I've ever seen.  Seriously, check this shit out:

"will be 5x bigger than Ju
cavities
visible food in teeth
could stain clothes
acne
will be hot and sweaty
wastes time
period
g & t
fatass whale
waste of money
love handles
won't look tall
backaches
won't have any confidence
look disgusting when drunk
look disgusting when dancing
look bad with mother
can't go to the beach
can't wear new clothes
people at school
won't be able to cross legs
bad feeling in throat"


I feel I should add that this girl has been involved in the pro-ana community for well over two years, has never been at an underweight BMI, and yet still refers to herself as "anorexic".  She currently weighs 125lbs.  A healthy weight for her height (5'6"), which is a good thing -- unfortunately, she's obsessed with trying to become anorexic.  And in case you think I'm jumping to conclusions here: I've actually known this person for over a year now, and trust me... she's a wannarexic.

Let's run through that list again, with my own responses to the 'reasons', shall we?:

will be 5x bigger than Ju -- Whoever Ju is, I highly doubt that you'll become five times bigger than she is just because you eat.
cavities -- Brush your damn teeth then.
visible food in teeth -- Again... brush your teeth.  And you'd rather risk death than risk having food stuck in your teeth?  What the hell?
could stain clothes -- So... your clothes are more important than your health?
acne -- ...isn't caused by eating.
will be hot and sweaty -- Fat people don't sweat more than thin people do.  Everyone perspires when they get warm.  It's part of being human.
wastes time -- Being anorexic is a waste of time.  I know this from experience.  Believe me, there are better things you could be doing.
period -- Again, this is a good thing.  It means you're healthy.  Plus, bleeding for five days every month really isn't such a big deal -- pop in a tampon and get over.
g & t -- I have no fucking idea what this means.
fatass whale -- Eating doesn't make you fat.  Eating UNHEALTHY foods, have crappy genetics and never exercising does.
waste of money -- A vital need is a waste of money?  Or do you consider buying a new iPod more important than, y'know, not being dead?
love handles -- Most people, even healthy weight people, have a tiny bit of love handle action going on.  Our bodies store fat in certain ways -- it's normal to have a bit of extra flesh on your lower back.  It's really not that big a deal, either... I doubt most people care whether or not you have love handles.
won't look tall -- How does eating make you look shorter?
backaches -- I highly doubt that eating will cause backaches.
won't have any confidence -- Right, and starving yourself is going to bring you so much confidence.  Hah.
look disgusting when drunk -- Everyone looks disgusting while drunk.  Get over it.
look disgusting when dancing -- So, dancing is more important than your health?
look bad with mother -- Not sure what this means either.  If your mom is calling you fat, when you're 125lbs, your mother is a bitch and you shouldn't listen to her.
can't go to the beach -- Anyone can go to the beach, fat or thin.  It's a free country.
can't wear new clothes -- Sure you can.  Just buy sizes that actually fit you, instead of "thinspo" size zero jeans.
people at school -- Who gives a shit about them?  In a few years, you'll never see them again.  Are they really worth risking death for?
won't be able to cross legs -- Uh, unless your BMI is like 80, you'll be able to cross your legs.  Glad that being able to cross your legs is more important than stay healthy, though.
bad feeling in throat -- What.

Since I'm bored and can't sleep, I think I'll have some more fun with her stupid list.  Only this time, I'm gonna give you guys some reasons NOT to be "ana".  Yippie!:

1) Will still think you're five times bigger than 'Ju', whoever she is, even if you have a BMI of 12.
2) Will end up with tons of cavities, from purging, malnutrition, etc.
3) Lose all of your teeth, when they finally rot away.
4) Will probably stain your clothing when your bladder or bowels become too weak to function properly, and you end up with a load of urine and feces in your pants.
5) Dry, cracked, pale, sickly skin.  Hair growing on your face, arms, stomach, back, etc.
6) Will constantly feel cold and feverish, no matter how warm it is.
7) Wastes time.  You could be out partying with your friends, but instead you're at home, alternating between weighing yourself and jogging in circles in your bed room.
8) Will lose your period.  This puts you at an increased risk for ovarian cysts, hormonal imbalances, infertility, osteoporosis, etc.
9) B&P: Binge and purge, a horrible cycle to get trapped in.
10) Bony, living corpse.
11) Waste of money, when you buy binging food, laxatives, diuretics, exercise equipment, multiple scales, etc.
12) Bed sores.
13) Won't look tall, once your spine begins degenerating, and you end up with a hunchback.
14) Backaches.  See above.
15) Won't have any confidence.  You'll still think you're a fat, disgusting failure, no matter how much weight you lose.
16) Look disgusting while drunk... while sober... while sleeping... etc.
17) Look disgusting while dancing, since you'll basically look like a living corpse.  That is, of course, if you actually have the energy to dance... which you probably won't.
18) Make mother cry her eyes out, blaming herself for your problems and feeling helpless to do anything about them.
19) Can't go to the beach, since you're too weak and ill to make it there.
20) Will hate your body too much to be able to handle trying on new clothes.  Also won't fit into anything worth buying.
21) People at school will be gossiping about how gross you look, how sick you look, making fun of you, etc.  Oh, and the rest of the world will be doing the same, as well.
22) Won't be able to cross legs, because you're too week to hold them in that position.
23) Bad feeling in EVERY part of your body, from your head to your toes.

Seriously, does this idiot actually think these are good reasons to starve herself?  What the hell?
 Posted 4/2/2008 7:12 AM - 2009 Views - 16 eProps - 11 comments

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My god...This makes my heart hurt...and my brain bleed, and possibly shrivel, slightly.
Posted 4/2/2008 7:23 AM by DyingForMyControl - reply

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*reads list stupid list again*  I, too, still can't find the meaning of this "g&t" crap!
Posted 4/2/2008 7:27 AM by DyingForMyControl - reply

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hi...i totally agree with you. i was also really sick a year back. i have constant mia and ana, even been hospitalized. girls who think is is nothing, like a craze to loose weight, piss me off. it is a struggle everyday, a means to cope and a search for perfection. i can believe how blaise people make it out to be. there are millions of girls who say they are ana/mia and i just want to kill them. if they take one walk into a ED ward they will know what this is. i wish they would grow up and find something else to amuse themselves. it is not the strive to weight loss, it is the strive to perfection.
Posted 4/2/2008 7:30 AM by LoveSugga - reply

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@LoveSugga - 

You're absolutely right. That's what these girls don't get -- there is no "ultimate goal weight" in anorexia. It's an obsession with achieving a goal that is impossible to reach. You drop down to 90lbs, decide you want to be 80. Drop to 80, you want to be 70. And so on. Losing 10 pounds doesn't make you feel good... in fact, you feel shitty because A) You think you should have lost more, and B) Despite losing that weight, you STILL feel huge.

They really don't get it... it's not about being skinny and pretty at all.
Posted 4/2/2008 7:38 AM by nonemorepessimistic - reply

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exactly! the weight is not a issue, its the control. yes, at first you go into it looking for weight loss, but the sicker you get, the more you realize that it is a psycological issue. it isnt about the weight, the weight doesnt even cause it. there is an underlying problem that leads to it and makes you want to control an area of your life. weight is just the easiest thing. it is an escape from the daily chaos of life, into this secret you have, this untimate control. there is no end. even when you gain weight and become healthy again, you still struggle everyday. you are caught in two worlds. i mean i cant get out of bed without worrying about food. everything is calculated and precise. even though i am not the weight i used to be, i still have an eating disorder, and obsession with food.
Posted 4/2/2008 10:31 AM by LoveSugga - reply

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I'm sick of giving my opinion to the wannarexics.  I am having s many real problems caused by anorexia - it makes feel like spewing when I hear that people want this and when I see th mesia glamourizing it.
Posted 4/2/2008 7:46 PM by citykatmm - reply

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ahhh thank you, you're amazing and this is hilarious...gahhhhh i hate it when people have a BMI of like 25 and they try to convince you they've got anorexia real bad, it's just humiliating for both of you....
Posted 4/3/2008 12:03 AM by thankyoulittlegirl - reply

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I agree with you too and if you ask me, the list that the girl wrote sounds like she was pulling it out of her ass to be frank.  my ED has ruined my life in so many ways and it still does, and what these girls don't understand is this is not a game, this will kill you if you keep going. There are so many days that I just wake up and have zero energy from not eating enough, I also have something wrong with my kidneys as a result of this.  Although I don't really agree with the person above me's statement about BMI status, I have a BMI of 19.6 which is considered healthy for my height (I'm short..only 4'11) but that doesn't mean that I still don't have an ED.  The girls that post stuff like that need to realize that what they're doing is "pro-death" and that you can support someone with an ED without assisting their suicide...I'm pro-recovery, which means I support people who have ED's and also support the fact that if they're not ready for recovery (b/c for all of us it's a big step) then I'm not gunna force them, but I'm also not gunna be like "good job on losing those 5 pounds, when you're already in your coffin" if they're THAT bad into it that they're literal skin and bones and very near death then I do my best to try and get them to see why they need recovery ASAP...
Posted 4/3/2008 7:29 PM by jojlover - reply

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kick her!
Posted 4/5/2008 3:08 PM by drugsandunicorns - reply

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I agree anorexia is stupid...... if you want to control your life.....

CONTROL YOU LIFE = CHANGE YOUR LIFE in a positive manner ~don't kill yourself by starving to death~

Take all your negativity and self doubt, shove it in a bag and throw it away.

Take control: If you do not like your life find a positive solution to your  issues.

Posted 4/12/2008 2:07 PM by shariNohio - reply

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The only thing i can think of for G&T is a gin and tonic since thats what they refer to it as in the UK. I more than likely sound dumb as i cant see a reason why it would be a reason not to eat, then again i cant see why any of that shit are reasons not to eat. Take care *hugs* xxx

Posted 4/17/2008 7:09 PM by GoldenGizmo - reply


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